There is a crazy amount of ridiculousness online about dating big girls, loving big girls, how to talk to big girls, how you better stay away from big girls, how guys only like big girls in secret ... I've read that an advantage of being with a larger woman is that she'll stand up for herself if someone gives her flak, whereas a skinny girl will expect a man to defend her honor. Of course; but that has nothing to do with my size and everything to do with my integrity.Apparently, we fatties are our own "bodyguard." Really? And, by the way, skinny girls can stick up for themselves, too! Sadly, many big girls have had negative experiences dating, or in relationships, so may not have such an open heart.
They might have to work a little harder at proving it. It's been over 12 years since I have and things are different now.
My concern is not whether I'll be able to attract a man because of my ample size.
This has never been a problem; I've had many relationships.
Instead, I'm more concerned about aging, about being nearly 40 (and those bodily changes), and about being a single mother to boot. Do I have to tell them I'm not looking for a replacement daddy?
I have no clue.) Then there's this: I'm busy and picky about who I choose to spend my limited time with.